You're getting ready for the biggest date of your life, or week, depending how much of a woodsman you are.
I've just uploaded a new tutorial to my YouTube channel, giving you run down on how I get myself in the groove. In this article I'll give you the highlights reel on the MUST DO's to get you ready for that big first date.
I've also teamed up with Base London to give my readers a chance to win a Base London £100 Gift Card and a Carl Thompson first date grooming kit.
I've included all the details at the bottom of the article but first, guys let's get you prepped.
Get in the mood with ..
I want to get in the mood, put a little Marvin Gaye on Let’s Get it On. Only joking. Normally I go for a bit of Jacko, I want to Rock with you or something equally as cheesy, don't ask me to sing it. Or how about a bit of Bobby Womack, Across 110th Street? Yessss now we're talking.
Make sure you're bopping around to a song that empowers you and gets you relaxed.
What's in my grooming kit?
OK give the cash register a nice facial scrub. I currently using one from Lab Series, they're riding the crest of a wave at the moment these guys and I can see why. Makes my face feel really fresh, wakes me up!
Not all the girls like a man with a beard, so I make sure mine doesn't look to scabrous. I tame the beast with a bit of American Crew Beard serum.
Moving onto the skin, I use the Clinique Maximum Hydrator moisturiser.
They say the eyes are the windows to your soul right? So got to have a little window dressing. Eye contact on dates, so important. I have been using Perricone MD for as long as I can remember.
What about my hair?
You need something that is going to do your hair a solid service for the date, especially if you're going straight from work to the date.
I use David Beckham's House 99 Pomade; it can give a decent enough hold for 8-9 hours before it starts to lose its lustre.
And the best Aftershave for a First Date?
Keep that aftershave light and fresh, you don't want to overpower the poor girl or else she'll want to dine on one of those tables from that Bruce Wayne used to entertain Vicky Vale.
(That is a timely reference from 1989 and if you get that gag, then let’s go out for a beer).
The best first date aftershave out there right now is Tom Ford Noir de Noir. It's pushy, but not assertive.
Why I dress casual on a first date
Suits are too stiff for a first date, that's why I dress light
What’s the most important rule for light dressing? Go easy on the white wine vinegar but plenty of turmeric. Oh you mean clothes? Gotcha, (I have better jokes, haha) light dressing.
You should wear something that makes you feel comfortable and relaxed. Dates can be quite nerve racking; you don't want to feel rigid in an outfit you hardly wear.
I have my go-to outfit.
- White t-shirt
- Printed shirt
- Navy jeans
- Chelsea Boots
Before you leave the house remember?
If you've met her online give her profile one last eyeball before heading out. Look for some veiled clues, like if she's been traveling we can talk about places she's been that I might have been also.
Some people call that semi-stalkery, I call it good old fashioned research.
COMPETITION TIME FOLKS
As I promised you, here is your chance to win a Base London £100 Gift Card and a Carl Thompson first date grooming kit. Competition closes 31st May, UK Entrants Only. Enter by clicking this link https://mailchi.mp/683daaf6009a/07k68...
T&Cs blurb for competition:
Gift card can only be used at www.baselondon.com and cannot be exchanged for a cash alternative. Competition only open to UK entrants. Prize will be for one £100 Gift Card and a selection of men’s skin care and grooming products which will be delivered to the winner’s UK address.